She works and makes good money, but she spends like crazy. Always has, but easy to ignore when you love someone. Legal separation is what I'm thinking, but unfortunately our mortgage requires both of us. It's on her family property so she doesn't want to loose it. But, she can't pay me the equity difference if that's the case. Leaves us selling it. She won't agree to that. Me and the boys live in the house now.
I put up with her coming by and acting like normal for the same of the boys, but it hurts me. If she's done (I know I know it's mlc) I want to move to my "home" where I have support and a better school system.
Funny, when the boys an I returned home this afternoon she had done laundry, dishes, hauled trash, and is cooking for them at her apt. They are now staying all night with her. All normal for when I've had enough. It's like she wants to prove to me she's worthy of custody. Stealing rounds, if you will (boxing term).
M - 42 W- 37 S's - 9,6 M-12 T-14 FIL- diagnosed with fatal disease spring 2011 ILYBNILWY - march '12 FIL - died jan '13 W Moved out week later
