Yeah Bug, I am SO excited not to have shingles, lol!

So. Yeah, I've been trying to gently suggest to my sister that there might be a 12 step program that helps her cope. She did read and got a lot out of Codependent No More.

My niece asks for money, and a place to stay, and for someone to pay for her vicodin prescription, but not the kind of help I think she needs. I don't believe anyone has heard her admit having a drug problem, but her sisters have seen her do cocaine. She runs through money like water, gets fired for bizarre convoluted reasons that don't ring true. If she wanted to change her life and start over I'd want to try to help her do that.

I guess the only resource I know of for that is EE or Landmark, but I think you kind of have to want to get something out of that for it to do you any good.

My sister's afraid she's going to kill herself.

Adinva 51, S20, S18
M24 total
6/15/11-12/1/12 From IDLY to H moving out
9/15/15-3/7/17 From negotiating SA to final D at age 50
5/8/17-now: New relationship with an old friend
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Happiness is a warm puppy.