No disrespect Bond, I appreciate all the advice and knowledge. I understand your frustration with me, heck, I'm frustrated with myself too!
I'm not blaming you, I'm actually thankful for all the support on this site, good people!
I guess i came across as desperate like labug said. I can see that now.
Gotta stop that for sure.
I do try to understand the advice, I guess I'm a bit of a slow learner at certain things.
I think what happens is I get advice, I get regenerated,but as time goes by and nothing changes, I get discouraged and eventually desperate, eeech!

But you never bothered to learn how to address your W's needs. Not wants, NEEDS.

I'm trying man! Communication has been tough. Not wanting to make excuses, I really do want to address my w's needs. Just not sure what they are and how to address them. Sounds like she needs a D and she's unhappy I don't give it to her yet.
Just have to Gal and worry about myself for now, until she wants me to address her needs.


Me:46 W:40
M:10 T:17
D:9 S:6
BD:12/11
ILYBINILWY:8/12
Served 2/13
I moved out 2/13
I moved back 6/13
W moved out 9/13