Being patient.

[Mtnman]

I guess my patience is gone! It looks like I'm going to be filing ASAP and trying to get the boys and move. MIL told w she was evicted from her apt, which pissed w off, who told MIL and then me that she was never moving home and would instead move and take the boys.

I bucked and basically told her I would be keeping the boys, etc ending up in a torpedo of our current situation. I was nice but firm. Told her I was tired, wanted help with boys, and so forth and so on. I'm tired of the boys being exposed to her craziness, her friends craziness, and the knowledge that they aren't her first priority. Also, to protect myself financially. I ended it by saying I wanted to move with the boys closer to my family, 30 miles away, and would be pursuing that. She didnt like it and said we would fight it out.

I blew it, but the safety net has to be taken away. I'm really at a loss.

Thank u again MIL!!!