"I feel bullied when he is insisting on purchasing more inventory. etc."
All of your reasons for feeling bullied are just a part of being a partner in business. It's why partners disagree all the time. This has nothing to do with your personal relationship.
And again, equating it to the way PON is treated by his W is not the same. His W has been verbally, psychologically and physically abusive. Your H hasn't shown any signs of that.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.
