Good! I know you feel it's crazy for you guys to move when your W is not showing any affection or sleepin in the same bed BUT the move in her mind might be the new starting line to your new R so she'll finally feel relaxed an be more open to you.
I remember my H used to tell me how he hates the idea of new year resolutions. He thinks if anyone wants to do something they can start it today and not wait until new year's. I used to strongly disagree with that. Sometimes it's just really hard to start fresh when you are in a mess whether its a horrible diet or sleeping in until 10 min before work. Idk if its a girl thing but I hear that from girl fiends all the time: "Ill start my diet after xxxx" "ill start xx from next week" I know it's an excuse and you are losing time while waiting but sometimes you need some time to sort out the mess and start fresh you know?
M37 H36 M8 T12 inc 3yr L-dist 7/12:H broke down 10/12:H dad D frm W4. BD soon after 1/13:H wants to leave 2/13:H gpa passed. Feels closer but H still leaving 3/13: S begins