Run and hide your crazy

[albamarie]

I've asked the DB sages a couple of times about an extended MLC. Popular opinion is that either this is part 2 of a crisis or H has other issues.

Or maybe both? I personally lean toward Narcissism - tendencies at the least.

Hi Miz, I agree w the narcissism for my sitch as well. My opinion is when your not so self absorbed, you then can recognize when your inflicting hurt upon another person, aka the one you L.

I called my H "singular" the other day, which to me is a also a form of this mixed pot of MLC. He can't take my ignoring him for too long, but never has the forethought to include me in on a cup of coffee or to throw an extra egg in the pan for me.

Is there really a part to of MLC, or is it the cycling I read about? It makes me wonder if I am a big contributor to his cycling if so. It's true I haven't made any life altering changes that would shake him.

I send my H's calls straight to VM now, my little act of detachement. It's good you don't answer right away, why should you be at his beckon call!

Can you explain the test, and what the results reveal? thanks