Gabby speak your mind. I'm in a better place. I understand you care. Just that our situations are not exactly the same. I know I'm dealing with a spoiled brat right now. if you look back and think logically about the series of events that got us back to this point it doesn't add up. My W is in a middle of EA with this OM and she don't even know it. If I bring it up she will act 2