Stuck between a rock and a hard place!

[dorightman]

What's the worst possible outcome of this?

a divorce, meaning, selling the house, co-parenting the kids, mediation, and ultimately separate lives. My w tells me over and over that we could be friends, co-parent the kids, and everything would be fine. She says kids will not be affected unless I decide to abandon them, which she knows won't happen.

I know being desperate won't make any difference at all. I just want to save my marriage and I don't want my kids to have to grow up in this way, even if Obama is the president! (meaning he came from a divorced family and is fine!) One of my w's arguments for D!