Her main complaint about me was first my gameing so after she left me I got rid of all me gameing systems or deactivated the ones on the computer whitch leads to the other issue my lack of attentiveness.
she so far this morning is showing signs of change like asking if IU want to go with her to get gas or the store. grabbing my arm to pull me closer I don't want to let down my guard from the lessons Ive learned from reading the 37 rules but what do I do? She even said I love you unprevoked.
I wouldn't have deactivated your consoles, if you enjoy playing them then you should carry on playing them It probably wasn't so much the gaming as the amount of time you spend on them. You've got to do things for you now not her. It's too soon to think about R, if she comes back now she'll go straight back out of the door again! I would get other people's take on this though, not just mine! I'm fairly new with all this 180/Sandi's rules.
H47 me48 T22 M21 S20 - Got high functioning autism 3/2000 H admits to OW and moves out to live with her 11/2000 H moves back home 2/4/13 H moves out H tells me he wants D 6/13, but now he can't afford to!
It probably wasn't so much the gaming as the amount of time you spend on them. 