It all started because I thought I was giving her a break or 1 hour to blow dry her hair . She pulled a nutty saying I come down to vaca house to clean so you guys have fun . Keep buying stuff for kids mr fun guy. I bought a tube for boat . Then she threw into my face I came down weekend before with kids (she was invited). I reminded her I came down in pouring rain to give her break and she stfu.
She has been saying that alot lately about fun dad or fun guy or father of year.
Just so you know I travel 90 miles a day to provide for family . Yes I'm fun with kids but I also try to make beds, fold and wash laundry, empty dishwasher ,yard work and pool maintenance ,pay all bills, cook when I can. (Not so great here) trash etc. I'm not a slouch that she makes me out to be in her head. I think it's jealousy and resentment from being home.
All of sudden she doesn't even want to go on boat (signed up with me before she distanced) to watch kids tube. My answer ok. "I'm not a boat person" oh really we use to fish all the time
Anyways I try not to react to the comments. Once in awhile I'll defend myself like "I play and do things for my kids cuz I love them "
I understand that dad is typically the fun guy at home and SAHM mom is the evil villian.
There were a few things that happened this weekend I didn't like
Invite OM over house while I'm not there And drop L bomb cuz she felt I was leaving her out. Who does that unless they have agenda.
I did talk to sponsor a few times to help me get back on track and enjoy kids. It worked
