Right there with you. I also now think that almost any talk of the past, memories of when the kids were little, where we lived, past jobs, past events, threatens my W, because she wants a clean break from her life with me. It doesn't even need to refer to our past M or R explicitly, but in a way it does. She's never blurted out that this is a problem, I'm just learning to not do it.
It's hard when we're alone together and chatting not to do this, but I'm scaling back.
M:46 W:46 M:25;T:29 S:25; D:17 BD:12/22/12 D process begun:1/21/13 W moves out:3/1/2013
Anyone who isn't embarrassed of who they were last year probably isn't learning enough- Alain De Botton
