Thanks again Fartiltre for your continued replies, they make so much sense and help immensely. The only thing to add, is no issues with the sons at all. Accepting how they are. You are right I need to be the rock for them, not the other way around. I do like the picture of the sheep and cow drinking while watching the sunset.
ME:51 W:46 M:25 S:22, S:20 Divorced 16/9/15 BD 10/12 W left 12/12 with OW, affair confirmed Nov/12. Dark since 6/13 I"m in a new relationship since Feb 14.
