Love that soundtrack too TVS! It brings back good memories for me.

You've got it right...all you can do is back off if you feel its not good to move too quickly on your H.

Have been reading lots of interesting posts on your thread...you've got lots of support and great friends here. I wish this A would hurry up and end too. I'm riding this roller coaster with you, hopeful, sad, angry, disappointed you name it all the feelings are there too when I read each post of yours. Can only imagine what its like living it like you do.

Take care TVS..keep taking the high road. x