Why does your bonding time with the children bother her so much? What would she prefer, neglect or abuse?
You are Not playing into her narrative about you. She wants to justify her choices.
Since you're an involved loving father and a good provider, it just does Not help her internal monologue to still try and blame You. You are not playing along!
Good for you . Keep being a great dad . If that confuses/irks her, so be it.
It's Not your job to play along with the "bad PON & innocent W" story she must tell herself over & over.
It's your job to be the best PON you can be.
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016