Stuck between a rock and a hard place!

[dorightman]

Yes I had a plan, a plan to go in w an open mind. The issue of me moving back never came up. Not in therapy, and not at home. W was angry the day I came back, and then she was ok. She just said that since Im back, she expects me to step up as a dad, which I did regardless.
We both started talking, not sure who started first. It was a pretty calm talk, but it still hurt a lot.
It just feels the same no matter what I do or did for the past year.
Yes I made alot of mistakes in the beginning, but for the past 6 months I've acted much better, less emotional. She's not scared to talk anymore, but feels like it's a dead end because we both want different things. She wants D, I want to reconcile. This has been the problem from the start last August. You cannot work on a relationship with someone who refuses to. I really feel like there's nothing else I can do.