FY, thanks for the input. I tend to agree, and my DB coach had similar advice "to show my W that we can be exciting, and to work on being a couple instead of a mommy". I think my DB coach was dead-on. It is difficult to ignore that your W is pursuing other men -- for whatever reason.
Lately, I've been wondering if the MLC ever ends, or if we will simply go from one crisis to another.
