I have been a negative person for many years, always looking at the glass half empty rather than half full. And as T1000's example states, I probably spent more time finding or saying things when something was wrong, rather than when things were right.
That's a very good place to start! Who do you like to be around! Optimistic people or pessimistic people? How can you 180 here? That’s a hard one since this is life and habits.
Originally Posted By: HWA
He is very good natured guy and one of those people you are lucky to have friendship with. But in saying that, he would take the friendship with the family (especially the SIL, who is like a daughter to him) over our friendship.
Consider this if you ask him but IMHO you can still choose to ask him as long as you keep the talk around you and your wish to understand and develop! I have to say that I am not on solid ground here so this and in fact all I have posted is my personal opinions! My first thought was that you should talk to him but 10 seconds later – why not? What or who could it hurt? If SIL finds out – so what? The talk is about you and not W!
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Me:44 W:43 D7, D5 (S11 from other R)
T: 8y - not M ILYB: 8. Mar 2013 W moved: 1. Aug 2013 LRT: 20. Aug 2013 _______________________________ Do or do not – there’s no try.
