I just can't get you off of my mind

[RosaLinda]

"I continue to encourage W to talk to me when she feels like it. Yes, I now have crazy mad listening skills! I'm not going to allow some OM to come along and top me here. This is why I see the "ignore them" technique sometimes advised to be so misguided."

Me too! I am afraid some DBers are embracing LRT way before Divorce Remedy recommends. Almost as one of the first things to try, not a last ditch effort. 

You keep warding away those OM Forever, by being there for W when she is ready to open up, and then giving her space when she's not. Easy to say, hard to live. But you're becoming a master!