Thanks, Demoted and Thumpered! I definitely have been trying to at least leave the room or take S on a walk when I feel like an argument is brewing or I am extremely uncomfortable with the way H is acting.

I'm actually getting my hair done right now and having a couple of changes (nothing too drastic, but different) and I'm hoping H notices. Still doing great exercising and eating right and trying to work on my physical appearance, since H said his main issue is he isn't physically attracted to me anymore.

Demoted, I love your quote about "These people act annoyed that we are still attached to them!" So true and ridiculous (IMO). I hope y'all are having a good weekend. H text me earlier and asked if I wanted to go to dinner as a family and I said yes so hopefully that goes well.


Me: 27 H: 27
Together: 11, M: 3
S 2
BD: 06/24/13
Living together
H: EA - unknown current status
Read: DB, 5LL (slowly reading DR)
Back and forth we go...