Wow, Sailing, (and T2) it just goes to show that every sitch can be quite different. Still seems like a whole lotta MLC driving it all to me. (sometimes I wonder if it's not)

I mean if our spouses were really "done" with us, wouldn't they be long gone already? WTH is up with that?

And yes TVS, I too think you are definitely awesome! I hope Hubby realizes it soon.

M: A really long time.
Crisis: 5 years.
She's still worth it.

Life is never made unbearable by circumstances, but only by lack of meaning and purpose. -Viktor Frankl