One of my friend's H who left to have an affair wanted to make sure his wife would take him back before he broke up with the OW. Like he couldn't stand not having the option, or being without someone for even five minutes. That's what I feel like with my H right now too. He needs the options.
Um, yeah, it's kind of like as a kid, when you're fighting for independence and your parents don't let you do something. You pack your bag and leave. But only go far enough to be back in time for dinner, right?
Your comment about plans.. Hm... Seems to me life is life. Things happen that you didn't plan on. Somebody once mentioned to work outside the box. Seems to me we should just throw the box out and live for today. Tomorrow will be here soon enough
Peace, AJ
"Our lives begin to end the day we become silent about things that matter" MLK Put the glass down... "Yesterday I was clever so I wanted to change the world Today I am wise, so I am changing myself."
