Still is work for me to let people (including myself) just be.

It's not easy, is it?

You can do it.

It's so much easier to fall back into our old ways but then we remember that those ways didn't work. Think about your kids trying to learn new skills and behaviors-the true beginner's mind.

I'm accepting of the reality that I will always love my H and he will always be a part of me...but maybe not a part of my life. I may meet someone else and have a love relationship with that person. I will still have a love for my H, maybe a different love but it will still be love.

I stopped trying to demand that my feelings change, because they will change when they change.
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I wrote an email this week that was lengthy for me,at the end I put "Don't call me Spartan!" crazy

Have a good weekend.

Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss