subguy, I signed up for the NVC weekly email tip and it's one of the few things I'm happy to see in my inbox. Short and to the point, it always gets me thinking.

Another good thing about giving up sarcasm, I no long have those guilty, "Wonder if I hurt so-and-so's feelings?" thoughts. Sort of like not having the hangover after choosing not to drink.

Subguy, I hope you keep posting here, it's helped me stay focused.


Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss