No I have not read any of Joe beam I'll take a look at it later tonight. I'm having a low morning I miss talking and seeing my H. He had come home in the last two nights but he came home really late on both nights. When I get up I just get ready and head out to the gym then straight to work. This backing off is so hard to do I so wish he would just come back to our family already. I know its going to be a long long waiting process that he may or may not come back to our family. He still hasn't said anything more about us getting a dissolution of our marriage so I'm hoping that i still have a chance on saving our marriage I just have to keep backing off even if it keeps killing me to break any contact with him unless it has to do with my sons and or if it is important things that I need to ask him. I miss just having a conversation with him or even spending a small time with him.


M:42
H:37
M:14yrs
S:13; S:9
Found out PA:8/2012
2nd PA & still w/OW:4/2013
H asked for D:6/2013
H moved out: 8/2013
H & OW moved in together: 8/2013