4th was ok. W pulled a nutty on me the first day saying I left her out on beach . I was trying to give her an hour to herself to get ready and she interpreted how she wanted to interpret. She then dropped lawyer bomb over it. I told her she was acting childish . She acts like a 16 year old throwing fits. I wasn't happy at all that OM "stopped" by. Basically my w is having EA and she doesn't know it. My theory is if she hiding and deleting txt something going on. I did have to call my sponsor day 1 after beach incident because I was so upset. He helped me understand its out of my control.
I do want to get my balls back but I'm pretty sure 25 is right. Only way is to give her what she wants and maybe and only maybe she will wake up.
Had a great day on boat with son and nephew. Had firework display for kids.
I feel my w has so much resentment , hate , and anger toward me that she is just gonzo.
She also doesn't understand self growth . She questioned me going to alanon because my father dead and has been for sometime . She doesn't understand recovery or her ego won't allow her too . Alanon is about changing ineffective behaviors and becoming a better person. Living a happy and full life
My w has been saying this alot lately . You just the fun guy. You just mr fun with the kids . You buy this and that for kids. You come home and play with kids. Make yourself look like father of the year . I was like I play with and do things for kids cuz I love them and walk away
