Me 8 months on, dark and trying to detach.

[Fartiltre]

HWA

I get you so well and it is so easy for me to point these matters out to you and still almost impossible for me to live them myself!

Not to mention my forced flatmate also mentioned this morning about how I am about the only person in this town that doesn't see the W was in a relationship…..

Realize that she is in PA – she is! Everybody is telling you, you feel it and now you have to realize it and live with it! For now! Read about affairs in here – they end and when they do the LBS being the spouse you’ll never leave stands out!
And if she is or isn’t – it won’t make a difference right now I regards of YOU!

…. I am trying my best not to let his words affect me, but again, when so little is said and done and I get blamed for all from all, you just make snap decisions.

Why does it affect you? What are people blaming you? Is it fair? Why does this get to you?

….you just make snap decisions.

Do apply the 48 hour rule! It has saved my so many times!



Keep your hopes for R up! Vets has written so many times that R in less than a year is very rare. You can still do this but focus on you and your life! Let W live hers for now!

You are still doing well and I do not see any major problems in you calling her and asking what you did.

Get your own life sorted out. Financials, houses, the split and so on! Do family business, talk with the boys…GAL!!! What the heck: go on a date! That’s what you need to do! GAL!

Do GAL where you meet new people!

Cheer up!

F