Listen and Validate.

Applaud the 1%

But don't be too eager to share your own problems. If she asks that's one thing, but otherwise keep them to yourself.

Remember.. it's all about actions now. Don't "address" anything. Show her the new you.

I was always told that

Consistency + Time = Changes she can believe in.

Patience is key.

M(f): 43
D'ed: 8/12

Show empathy when there's pain. Show grace when warranted. Kindness in the midst of anger. Faith in the face of fear.

Love at all costs because you are loved well.