@Foreveryoung, then this is not the thread for you. While I respect your choice to believe what you want, your purpose was an attempt to diminish what I and others who have responded, believe. For us, as Christians, we believe that we have a covenant between ourselves, our spouse and God. I would ask you to respect our beliefs and not worry about responding to this thread. I am sure there are other threads you can speak your mind. And I do hope your marriage is restored.