That is interesting, Raine.

While we feel that all of our spouses are in a MLC, the reasons that brought them about are unique to each one.

And so, while there are similarities in actions and words, each MLCer has to go through this in their own time, in their own way.

They have to complete and close out each part and reconcile what brought it about in order to come out whole.

They cant take any shortcuts, or they will wind up back in the tunnel again.

I know it is so hard to watch and live through. You are doing wonderfully, R.

Oh and as I said on T's thread - I have the patterns for the clothes - one burial suit coming up. Black, grey or blue? LOL!