stilllookinup, no it's not a deal breaker. But I have got to the stage where I need to know what and where I am in the scheme of things. All the characteristics of an affair have been displayed, not just to me, but to a lot of other family members. If it isn't an affair, then why the heck has she been acting the way she has been for the last 8 months, it certainly doesn't resemble what a WAS does.
ME:51 W:46 M:25 S:22, S:20 Divorced 16/9/15 BD 10/12 W left 12/12 with OW, affair confirmed Nov/12. Dark since 6/13 I"m in a new relationship since Feb 14.
