I know how hard it is not to take it personal. I mean, these people act annoyed that we still are attached to them. Um, hello! Thats what we signed up for when we got married.
I'm sorry they decided they feel otherwise, but we need time to catch up.
As for the sex thing, I get ya. I have the opposite trouble. H wants to, but things arent working sometimes. I say it's stress. But my head wants to say "it's me, I'm not desirable. I'm old, fat, boring. Not anything new". This whole thing is a mind@$&#. I too miss that connection with my H...when I thought it was a special way to bond. Now, kinda skeeves me out sometimes. I'm not used to having"casual sex"... & certainly not with H!
Eggshells sux, definitely get out for a bit...thats a fight brewing. Go get an icecream cone or coffee, go to the library (one I've been doing too!), walk the dog, talk to a neighbor about chit chat. Hang in there.
H48 M46 T26 M25 S25 D21 10/4/12 BD - ILYBINILWY, S 10/7/12 H Leaves, works 2 hours away H Done 1/13 H tells S he wants D 2/13 NO R talk since - nothing filed We live together weekends
