Welcome to the DBing community. I hope you will post every day. The more posts, the faster moderation will end.
Have you read Divorce Remedy? If not, pick up a copy and start getting Michele s information.
II saw your post in the 37 rrules, and you were concerned that it could push the WAS farther away. Most newcomer LBS share those feelings. If you have a question about any particular one, I'll try to help as much as I can.
What are her complaints about you?
"She said at this time we will work on our marriage for 6 months to try and fix it that quickly turned into 3 months now end of the month. Now all the issues she was having with me at least the ones exspressed I have been working on some say over dueing yet I have not seen the same from her she just doesn't seem to be trying. what can I do if anything please someone help."
First of all, you are focused on her efforts instead of your own. The sad truth is when a S gives a time limt in a R, they seldom are committed.....and therefore, you won't see efforts on her side of the fence.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
