They feel trapped, want to run, need space. Some leave, some don't. Some return, some don't. But for all the newbies out there, it is IMPERATIVE that you give space, no matter what.
I think home is also a reminder to them of their old life. A life that they have rewritten many things about, a life which they often try to forget.
I think it's good that your H came home.
Seconded. Except I don't think they try to forget it. They may like to, but I think they remember it all too well and it gets in the way of what they feel compelled to do. Whatever that may be. And they only seem to remember parts of it at a time, which makes for odd conversation at times
Peace, AJ
"Our lives begin to end the day we become silent about things that matter" MLK Put the glass down... "Yesterday I was clever so I wanted to change the world Today I am wise, so I am changing myself."
