MLC by MIL death/daughter car accident/new job

[Live4myDay]

How do you handle the bashing and blame.? Making me out to be a monster. Has his family convinced I'm a cold hearted biaxch. I am far from the nasty person he made. I feel he reflects this to our kids too. And the OW is a wonderful and sincere person.

I mean he's so hurtful. And yes I ended up texting him about our wedding anniversary. I set myself back another two years. I wasn't expecting a response but he turns it around. I keep thinking at least maybe he'd be nice to me. Like yeah that was a nice memory or day or not even relying.

But he has to turn all nasty on me. I don't understand how someone can be so involved in a persons life then turn on them. Completely walk out.

And to not even go back n forth on his decision. Not a MLC. He's a WAS that isn't looking back. Very hard and words hurt. Can we ever have relationship?

Can we ever get to a point where we can become friends again? Or will it always be on his terms?