Emotional Connection and Attraction

[MrBond]

"Again, these convos could be nothing, but I'd be lying if I said I don't pay attention to stuff like this."

This is EXACTLY the kind of stuff you need to be paying attention to. These are good signs.

As for the other issues, have you ever thought that she's extremely worried about her surgery and that intimacy is the last thing on her mind? That's YOUR NEED. What have the two of you been doing together?

AND do not ask her about the LL test. It's a good thing to know what your W's LL is, BUT let it go for now. Bottom line is that she doesn't FEEL it.