Wife said she was done! House sold, Moving forward

[Maritimer]

Weird that if she asked me to come back to her I probably would....

Why? I don't want the obvious answer that you're lonely or you miss the kids because I know (and live) that.

I would go back because I chose to marry this woman and believe it could work if we both made an effort. As of now she is not. I am realizing I am co depended on her. For 10 years she was there for me with the good and bad times. Still remembering the good times i guess.

I want to know why you would go back now?
Has she done any work to make you think things would work out better this time?
What changes have been made?

I would go back because it is what is best for the children. She has done no work to improve herself or show any interest that she wants to reconcile. She is also pretty.

What are you doing to keep yourself busy?

I work 10 hours a day 5 days a week. Drive 1 hour 4 times a week to see the boys.

I jog/walk the dog for an hour most days. I go on my dirt bike every second weekend.

It feels that I am so busy with work and seeing the boys that Im have a hard time starting new GAL activities and meeting new people. Something I need to work on. Finances are limited too as i would like to take a cooking class, photography class, swimming lessons and a Karate class.