Need help with the panic, impatience and snooping. So paranoid about possible EA or even PA with OM that I can't stop looking at text records on phone bill and trying to figure out if it could be related to the work on the house or if it's more than that.
Yesterday, she texted me asking what I'd told my mom, because my mom had texted her "happy 4th" and she said she was surprised that she would do that if I had told her "what's going on"
She asked if she could come do laundry, visit the cat and if she could take the microwave or toaster oven. I just said OK, then said I was going out, so I wasn't here when she came over.
She texted me before she left, and once while she was here with a message about the cats - no D talk or anything. When she got back to the other house, she texted me another trivial message. Then I went a tad bit overboard and texted back and ended up having the last word, or text. I should have ended it with a quick reply to hers. And made it worse by sending a FB msg and and email! I know, I know.
At least all of those were just light-hearted banter about non-relationship stuff. But one was a picture of a memorial stone I thought she'd like (for our old cat who passed away a year ago) because that was something we were supposed to do at the new house. So that might have seen that as manipulative.
