Not confused...moving towards acceptance

[BRNR]

You could possibly get a restraining order from him. I don't know what that action takes. I bet he will start screaming that he wants his kids and demands to see them now. Funny how court actions turn them suddenly into "caring, concerned parents".

Yep...I second this statement!!!!

Posting/venting/updating

July 4th was good - had family over (mostly H's) for a barbecue since I had the kids...it was great. The boys were even brought back in enough time to see my neighbors 30 minute long fireworks display.

So more bomb drop - I finally figured out why the cops came back a second time on Wednesday. apparently he filed an assault complaint against me because I put my hands up when he tried to barge through the house. I am 5'2 105lbs H is 6'1 190lbs. Nice huh!!!

I called to get a copy of the police report today to give to the attorney and found out I was listed as the accused and him as a victim. Before I receive advice on this matter, all please know this is being "rectified".

Still laughable. H is grasping at straws trying to get things turned in his favor. Not to play victim over agressor here, but I AM the victim. Why does he feel he is?

Anyway, tons of laughable moments yesterday and today. I think someone said on this thread that when they are in fear, they react. Yep, my H sure is.

I am really tired of all this...as of this week I am now lazy and capable of assault.
Unfortuneatly, as much as I love my H, I don't think we could ever come back from all this. I have now started to share with the world what has been going on in my life. The stress has gotten so bad that despite the smile on my face too much has to come to surface in order for me to save myself from this. People are asking...Wednesday's events became public and I got a lot of questions from a lot of people...including people who can help me somewhat legally (and possibly financially).

I am not scared or fear anything. Just wish I knew how this plays out.