Will I eventually get to a point when I know for SURE that I'm ready to make a move with my current M (unless the W gets there first)?

Me:38, Wife:36
M:8
T:13
No kids
Bomb:3/10/13
W moved out:3/30/13
Started D paperwork: 10/14/13
D final: 12/30/13
To a future of love and happiness...