I was too late to get the albums, the trash man took them away before i got there. When i asked that you knew I wanted them? all she said was "they were only pictures".

I spoke up and said I deserved to be treated with more respect that what im getting. I have been more than accommodating throughout this whole ordeal. Giving you space, drive 4 hours a week to see the boys, gave her what she asks for, money for the boys. She rolled her eyes, puffed and walked in the other direction. I never pro-sued as it would have not helped anyone at that time.

Im starting to feel uncomfortable when i am there. This woman I knew for 11 years is not the same person. So cold, negative and unhappy. I dont think a piece of paper saying were divorced will change that.

Its terrible that i feel uncomfortable to see my boys. I love hanging with them but dont feel welcome in her environment. This will have to change for us to be successful co parents.

Wonder if she is trying to poke the bear and get a reaction from me. If so I am not stooping to her level. I am working hard to become a better me and not let this negativity affect me.

When will it become easier! Weird that if she asked me to come back to her I probably would....


H 37
WAW 32
S 4 (Autistic)
S 2
Together 11 years
Married 6
Bombshell Dec 1 2012
House sold, flying solo June 1 2013.