Just an update as ive moved over to the MLC forum. Got more advice/tweaking from chuck. A great investment, make it happen if you can its cheaper than divorce.
Each situation is different so dont just DB to db, make it work for your sitch. Still have a bad day here and there of course, but they dont feel the same and they're less frequent.
Im prepared to go either way.
Got the kids out of town for a little vaca. Gal gal gal