It used to be so hard to just let people be--- and we made it Even Harder on those that we love the most.
Still is work for me to let people (including myself) just be. I still catch myself wondering what is wrong with people for not wanting to do fun stuff I like. Getting much better at it though. Even more dangerous are the times I catch myself trying to force things or not be who I really want to be.
Bug - You know how much I admire you for always being able to quickly bounce back and not stay under the covers. It inspires me to do the same. Truth be told I'm still not convinced she's gone forever and I'm D'd... I may never give up hope completely. Key is that we don't hold on to the hope and dream so much that we don't move forward with our own lives.
Personality is who the world sees, character is who you are
