Just caught up on your thread - I was hoping the homecoming would go a different way for you. But maybe it still will - perhaps his decency is also on a "delay".
You know, I came to these boards about 10 months ago absolutely (well, 99%) convinced that I had had ENOUGH of my H. Because it had just been going on so very long for us.
Reading your story, your faith and your compassion - well I wouldn't say I've had a total change of heart and mind, but you have made me ask some questions of myself.
Lol, I don't know if I should say "Thank you" or "Thanks a lot!"
But seriously, you and the other "steadfast" posters here should know that you do make a difference on this planet.
And my H is technically a Cancer, but tells everyone he's a Leo because he thinks that sounds better - more like a leader.
And I, of course, am a lovely and gracious Libra (Please, no applause)
Have a great day!
Me 46 H 56 M 22 yrs S22, D20, Twin Ss18
You teach people how to treat you by what you allow. What you stop. And what you reinforce. ~~~~~~~ A lack of boundaries invites a lack of respect.