Fartiltre, I believe a lot of those issues I had back around the 19th June are gone now. This turn of events has made quite a difference to my views. As mentioned the wife is being very good with the splitting of the assets, my only concern is the unbelievable value of the homes. She is allowing me to have the new car, for a even swap of the old car she is driving and the jet ski. With an option for me to buy the jetski from her. My biggest focus is getting the house/s. At my age, getting another loan (new) would be pretty impossible, especially with only the one wage coming in now. The investment is a big loss, as they should be, so while I don't really need it or care for it, I cannot either afford to sell it and make a big loss. So I have to take over both loans. Regards to a lawyer, cannot afford one. I am paying for the mortgages, don't have much spare and don't really want to waste money on one. I would prefer to spend my money on a DB coach for helping me. Again though, we will see how hard it gets and I might have to bite the bullet and get a lawyer/solicitor.
ME:51 W:46 M:25 S:22, S:20 Divorced 16/9/15 BD 10/12 W left 12/12 with OW, affair confirmed Nov/12. Dark since 6/13 I"m in a new relationship since Feb 14.