Hi HWA

Since I am inexperienced and also newcomer my knowledge into these matters isn’t large. At the same time I do not know how things work in your country but if it were me and in my country I would have my own lawyer write her lawyer and let them work things out. First off all I would consult a lawyer for help on what to do!

I would make a list of important items (You mention house, car and jetski – what else? What really matters to you?)
I would try to put values on these items
Then I would consult a lawyer and ask what to do

I would try to make the deal as fair as possible to myself and W

With this work done I would properly ask W if we should settle without lawyers just to save time and money. If this is not possible (and I wouldn’t argue much) I would let the lawyers do the job.


Then I would hope for the best, focus on me and GAL.

I posted you 19. June and so did others – In these posts you find what I would do!

Take care – I send you all my best wishes and hopes!

F


Me:44 W:43
D7, D5 (S11 from other R)

T: 8y - not M
ILYB: 8. Mar 2013
W moved: 1. Aug 2013
LRT: 20. Aug 2013
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