As Gabby said, I am also starting to believe you aren't real. Aside from the inconsistencies in your story (you forget the many versions you have told us), you also sound so one sided, it's hard to believe you're a real person. "Escaped to Canada"?? That's Her home country.
Remember how GREAT You treated her & Bruce back in France? Then you said something like, "She Pretended to plan on /reuniting was BS"--
Bruce---hello??- that's just a Lie you are telling -
you forget what WE (& your w) remember!!
She wrote you a letter after numerous complaints of loneliness & your total lack of involvement with your son. You showed us the letter! THEN she left & anyhow YOU took six months to follow her (she warned you that you could Not live where she was. She told you Not to come!) BUT before you "rushed" to re-unite with them, first-you wanted to Spend time on your own at the beach BEFORE joining them-
and you complained that she "was not happy for you then." You called HER selfish! Who are you kidding?
Bruce, keep your stories straight or you'll look like a nut or a total liar. At best, you leave out BIG chunks of fact when it serves you. But when we get the whole picture, you just look deceitful.
I think you believe your own BS, which is why it's such a waste of time trying to get you to open your eyes.
It's delusional and ir deceitful. I mean that.
NOW you say your w is "unstable"---oh really? Since when? since YOU talked about suicide last, or fleeing the continent OR??? your claims abput her are laughable lies.
If she were unstable or unsafe, why'd you let her have him all this time??
Weren't you worried for your son? No - Bruce you were not, so you see, Your NEW story (it's new b/c you never before mentioned any of this-just her sadness, which got her NO empathy from You, just irritability on your end), so its not as if your son's safety ever mattered before) makes No sense! You're not the first LBS to try to slander a spouse to reduce child support or use extortion threats to manipulate. You think we're idiots?
All you want is to Not pay her as much money & that's obvious to me, and your wife...& anyone who has read your Whole thread...
Your back up strategy is to use time with your son as leverage to force your wife home, which will also fail.
You do Not have a noble cause here Bruce.
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016