MLCers have a huge need to control - they are out of control but they want to control others. To us they appear to be living the life they have chosen, but they are not happy, and that bothers them.
As for fairness, well, a system that is fair is one that we can respect. We may not be going to get it from the current system, but I think while life throws stuff at us that isn't 'fair' our systems need to be, if that makes sense?
