I've realized that my XH has issues that don't concern me and if it weren't for my SS I probably wouldn't attempt to contact him for awhile.
The other day I asked him not to text me after 10pm, because I'm usually asleep since I wake up at 6 now. He got upset at that and said that he'd never contact me again. How's that for over reacting?
And a few days later he texted me that I was "throwing away our friendship"! I'd had enough and responded that he'd thrown away our marriage and I wasn't chasing after him any more. I know, not very DBing of me, but I've had enough.
He contacts me when he needs reassurance or a best friend, but his other friends get all the fun times. That's a little one sided for me. I'm supposed to see my SS on Saturday, so we'll see how that goes.
I was working at a festival last night and saw XH and SS briefly. SS came running up to me, saying hi and giving me a hug. XH wanted to pin down a day when I'd see SS.
They were only there for a minute or two, but XH came back before the fireworks to confirm the date. He seemed very stiff and uncomfortable, but maybe that had nothing to do with me.
M36 XH34 M-5 T7 4/11 H confused 5/11 ILYB 6/11 OW discovered 7/11 I move out, OW over 5/12-OW2,done->new EA, but H wont file 9/12 H "best bf ever" to EA/OW3 3/13 H/OW break up H files 4/13 D 6/18/13
