I think it's dumb because how is he supposed to feel what's like to really be single and divorced. He had the best life right now. Visit the kids when it's convenient and stay at his bachelor and when it's nt. he's needs to feel what divorce is really like.
Also I a, not staying this cordial once the D is over. I am done with him once the D is final. I, sure that goes against DB but enough is enough. I'm not pining over him once the D is finalized.
M12 Kids 2 ILYBINILWY 08/05 Reconciled 05/06 S07/12 Moved back 03/13 Separated Again 06/24/13 Back Again (his choice) 02/14 Leaving again 03/23/14 DIVORCED 02/15